Getting him back can have its ups and downs. You will have moments when you are so down that you can barely take it anymore. It feels like every day that nothing ever changes and it can be easy to give up hope. That is what makes it so exciting when you begin to see changes in your ex. This is why whenever you start to feel that twinkle of hope in your heart again, I encourage you to grab hold of it and run with it!
While you might feel at times that you're making something out of nothing, soon you will know without a doubt that things are starting to happen. It could be a change in his attitude towards you that only you might recognize when you are together or his tone of voice might be gentler with you than it was. There will be little clues that tell you that things are changing in his mind and his attitude towards you is softening.
While friends and family might say that you're fabricating all of this or simply finding what you're looking for, you know your ex and you are sensitive to the subtleties of how your ex acts and behaves. It might not mean anything to anyone other than you but it's often the little things that will act as signals to you that he is thinking of you or that he is wondering what you're doing. Often, it won't be in one fell swoop that he will come back to you. He will test the waters and slowly move in your direction.
When you initially realize that your hunch was correct and that you're not exaggerating things it can difficult to hold yourself back. You'll be happy and you'll want to push to get back together. You have been so good and tried so hard to get him back that it can be difficult to restrain yourself when things start to fall into place but you must keep your emotions under control. Yes, feel happy and joyful but try not to get too carried away. Don't push or fall back into old patterns of behavior where you to try to talk about getting back together. Just let it happen.
Try not to let doubt creep in even if he retreats or if things go back to how they were before. Keep on being positive about your ability to win him over and be glad that you had that moment when you could tell that the passion was not gone and that there really was something there. Be patient with yourself and with him and think about how it's going to feel when he finally does break down. Know in your heart that getting him back isn't going to be that difficult and that in time you will hear those words that you long to hear as he falls in love with you all over again.
While you might feel at times that you're making something out of nothing, soon you will know without a doubt that things are starting to happen. It could be a change in his attitude towards you that only you might recognize when you are together or his tone of voice might be gentler with you than it was. There will be little clues that tell you that things are changing in his mind and his attitude towards you is softening.
While friends and family might say that you're fabricating all of this or simply finding what you're looking for, you know your ex and you are sensitive to the subtleties of how your ex acts and behaves. It might not mean anything to anyone other than you but it's often the little things that will act as signals to you that he is thinking of you or that he is wondering what you're doing. Often, it won't be in one fell swoop that he will come back to you. He will test the waters and slowly move in your direction.
When you initially realize that your hunch was correct and that you're not exaggerating things it can difficult to hold yourself back. You'll be happy and you'll want to push to get back together. You have been so good and tried so hard to get him back that it can be difficult to restrain yourself when things start to fall into place but you must keep your emotions under control. Yes, feel happy and joyful but try not to get too carried away. Don't push or fall back into old patterns of behavior where you to try to talk about getting back together. Just let it happen.
Try not to let doubt creep in even if he retreats or if things go back to how they were before. Keep on being positive about your ability to win him over and be glad that you had that moment when you could tell that the passion was not gone and that there really was something there. Be patient with yourself and with him and think about how it's going to feel when he finally does break down. Know in your heart that getting him back isn't going to be that difficult and that in time you will hear those words that you long to hear as he falls in love with you all over again.
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