While your boyfriend or husband might honestly believe the reason why he left you, the truth is often something completely different. The real reason why he left you probably has nothing to do with what he told you. The underlying cause of your breakup is something that you can do something about and without him even knowing about it, as well.
Even though you might say that your boyfriend or husband is extremely intelligent, he is still a man. Being a man means that even if he is enlightened and considers himself in touch with his feelings, he still make all of his decisions based upon his emotions. He might appear very logical in his thinking and problem solving but that's the real problem with men. He might think that he is being very logical and deductive in his reasoning and decision making but underneath that facade are emotions that are running the entire show.
Most guys are able to rationalize and make it appear that they have made their decisions based upon logic. They are masters at twisting the truth and making everything look neat and tidy on the outside. They simply have to work this way because society has taught them to repress their emotions and to think with their mind instead of their heart. Your ex might be so skilled at this that he could give you a list of reasons why he made the decision that he did when he broke up with you.
The true reason why your ex left you is because of how he felt about you and also how you made him feel. It could have been a very quick transition from loving you to feeling nothing such as after an explosive arguement or it could have happened gradually. It could have been that your relationship was going through a difficult patch because of one of a number of reasons. It could have been the influence of another woman or stress in either of your lives or it could have been simply that your relationship fell into a comfortable rut. As things deteriorated, you might have seen it coming and you may have tried harder to draw him closer. Maybe you tried being nicer or you went out of your way to be loving and caring towards him but in the end he simply lost respect for you until it appeard that all love was gone from his heart when he looked at you.
The key to getting your ex back is a combination of changing how he looks at you as well as training him, in a way, to feel better about himself when he is with you. This is how affairs begin and how it is possible of a woman to steal a happily married man away from his family. It has nothing to do with the other woman being prettier more intelligent. It has everything to do with how the other woman is perceived by that man and how she makes him feel.
While it might take some time to get him to see you in a new light, taking a step back and letting the dust settle from your breakup can help him to forget about how he views you. If nothing else, by taking a step back and not pushing to get back together he will start to regain some respect for you. By not pushing him to talk about getting back together and avoiding talking to him altogether you will be taking the first steps to using male psychology correctly to win him over.
Even though you might say that your boyfriend or husband is extremely intelligent, he is still a man. Being a man means that even if he is enlightened and considers himself in touch with his feelings, he still make all of his decisions based upon his emotions. He might appear very logical in his thinking and problem solving but that's the real problem with men. He might think that he is being very logical and deductive in his reasoning and decision making but underneath that facade are emotions that are running the entire show.
Most guys are able to rationalize and make it appear that they have made their decisions based upon logic. They are masters at twisting the truth and making everything look neat and tidy on the outside. They simply have to work this way because society has taught them to repress their emotions and to think with their mind instead of their heart. Your ex might be so skilled at this that he could give you a list of reasons why he made the decision that he did when he broke up with you.
The true reason why your ex left you is because of how he felt about you and also how you made him feel. It could have been a very quick transition from loving you to feeling nothing such as after an explosive arguement or it could have happened gradually. It could have been that your relationship was going through a difficult patch because of one of a number of reasons. It could have been the influence of another woman or stress in either of your lives or it could have been simply that your relationship fell into a comfortable rut. As things deteriorated, you might have seen it coming and you may have tried harder to draw him closer. Maybe you tried being nicer or you went out of your way to be loving and caring towards him but in the end he simply lost respect for you until it appeard that all love was gone from his heart when he looked at you.
The key to getting your ex back is a combination of changing how he looks at you as well as training him, in a way, to feel better about himself when he is with you. This is how affairs begin and how it is possible of a woman to steal a happily married man away from his family. It has nothing to do with the other woman being prettier more intelligent. It has everything to do with how the other woman is perceived by that man and how she makes him feel.
While it might take some time to get him to see you in a new light, taking a step back and letting the dust settle from your breakup can help him to forget about how he views you. If nothing else, by taking a step back and not pushing to get back together he will start to regain some respect for you. By not pushing him to talk about getting back together and avoiding talking to him altogether you will be taking the first steps to using male psychology correctly to win him over.
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